So, from experience I have decided not to answer any texts that I can't answer with something like yes / no answers when it is regarding the kids, without consulting here first:

I got this text an hour ago (I am in no rush to answer, so won't before I have gotten some advice).

WW: "The kids were happy this morning, when I dropped them off at daycare. D5 brought her sled, and told all the other kids, that they could borrow it, if they wanted too. Is it okay that I sleep at the house from friday to saturday? since I have the kids till saturday afternoon? Do you want to come to family gymnastic on friday? We can all go, or you can just go with D5?"

Im gonna elaborate on the text here, and then give you my take on what I would write - then when I see your suggestions, it will make me that much wiser on what I would had done wrong I guess..

So basically she agreed to take the kids an extra day (saturday), because I have some very important meetings at my job with clients - Actually I was just going to come home saturday after the meetings, so her staying in the house from friday to saturday changes nothing.

I haven't seen the invitation for family gymnastics, and therefore didn't know - however my daugher loves it, and I feel like I should attend.

Here is what I would reply:

"Hi, ww.

Sounds like D5 had a good day. Thanks for letting me know about friday, I will take D5 to the gymnastics event.

/hurt"

Last edited by Hurt213; 01/21/19 01:04 PM.

BD: Wife says "its over" 11th august 2018.
EA: June 2018
PA: August 2018 - ongoing
Status: Taking turns 7 days a week to be in the house w. kids
WW: no regrets, seems happy with leaving.