That’s a tough one to answer. What is remorse actually? My sitch is a bit bizarre because my H found a way to leave four years ago without actually leaving. When I finally found out about his double life, he appeared to be remorseful. He is aware of the damage he has caused and feels bad about it so is remorseful in that regard. However, he is too far gone to see any other option but to walk away. My H is full speed ahead on dismantling the life we had together. Whenever I see him, he looks like he is completely sure of what he is doing so in that respect, no... no remorse. He thinks he is doing the right thing for all of us.
