Just another word to new posters who may be reading. This is why it is advisable to keep your sitch quiet of possible. I know a lot of LBSs that need support of their friends and family, but they later regret it because of the very dynamic mentioned here by blackmac. I know sometimes the WAS will tell others themselves but this is usually very atypical especially if they are in an active A.
Be wary blackmac, if she's being flirty she may have more shenanigans up her sleeve.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018