She begged for help so many times. And I just felt that my job was more important. I felt that being a provider was something all husbands needed to do.
Providing for your family is a very important part of being a good H, however, all your time and energy should not go to your job. With that said, I want to point out something.....and please know that I am not picking on you. I'm just trying to help you get your life more balanced.
Look at your goals:
- Bench 185lbs. in 3 sets of 10 reps. - Get a consistent paid gig for my photography - Lose another 20-30 pounds. - Become indispensable at my job.
Nobody is indispensable. If you quit today, your job would find someone to replace you. If you try to become indispensable, you become a slave to that job 24/7. I'm not saying you should goof off and not do what you were hired to do. Do your very best........and then stop working when the workday is over. Sacrificing your M and family is too high a price to pay for any job. Nobody on their deathbed has been recorded as wishing they had spent more time on the job. I hope this was just your way of wording, maybe to encourage motivation, but since you put so much attention toward your job in the past.......that goal jumped out at me.
BTW, I applaud you for the work you've done on your body.
Okay, so what about GAL? What do you do for fun? All work and no play means an imbalanced lifestyle.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
