TJT... you are wise beyond your years. I was thinking the same thing. I try very hard to speak respectfully of my H. I know he didn’t set out to do this to me and that he ultimately regrets how things happened even though he is steadfast in ending our MR. If he could go back and do the right thing (speak up about how he was feeling four years ago), I think he would. But that is in the past and he is only looking forward now. If I were him, I would be doing the same thing, I think. Anyway...we are all very, very hurt about how things went down in our MRs and anger almost always follows that kind of feeling. Try to keep a lid on the anger and deal with the hurt. (((Burned)))
I was thinking the same thing. I try very hard to speak respectfully of my H. I know he didn’t set out to do this to me and that he ultimately regrets how things happened even though he is steadfast in ending our MR. If he could go back and do the right thing (speak up about how he was feeling four years ago), I think he would. But that is in the past and he is only looking forward now. If I were him, I would be doing the same thing, I think. Anyway...we are all very, very hurt about how things went down in our MRs and anger almost always follows that kind of feeling. Try to keep a lid on the anger and deal with the hurt. (((Burned)))