Amen. Stay strong TJT. It’s not a temp check, but it is bait. He’s not getting the usual TJT reaction so he’s fishing. It ain’t over until it’s over.
Don’t tell him you don’t want it. Just take each step as it comes. Cold, rational, surgical. Hit the gym extra hard to cope.
Burned! Nice to see you again. I know I haven't been that active for a short minute after my trip and I know everyone is kinda getting back into the swing of things after the holidays. Anyway, I am going to check your thread later tonight or tomorrow, depending (I'm still packing for tomorrow). In general, hope you're doing okay.
With regard to your comment, what do you think he's fishing for? I agree with you that it's something, I just can't place what.
Being sick has been driving me nuts because I haven't been able to work out or even do yoga (not an excuse, I've felt totally flu-like despite not having the flu apparently). I am packing gym clothes to hopefully get some blood pumping this coming week with my coworkers while we're staying at our hotel, and hoping I feel good enough to make it worth the while.
Long-term I have been thinking hard about how to come up with a plan to work out in a way that I like and can be consistent with. I won't get into all my issues now (I mentioned my bicep tendon issue briefly before) but regardless I know I need to figure something out so, that's definitely on my list of to-dos as I start getting my energy back (and stop traveling as much, I've kinda been on the road on and off for a month now too).
H:39 W:30 M:4 T:9
05/2018: H says "ILYBNILWY", BD 07/2018: Discovered A, confronted 09/2018: PA + other details emerge; H moved out 12/2018: I filed 03/2019: Divorce finalized
