Just revisiting goals - updating for developments last week.
1. I will continue my voyage of spiritual exploration and personal growth. This has centered me, and boosted personal strength. Current assignment is to look at the re-balancing of being strong and opening up to support, love and care. Trusting H not to abuse any exposed vulnerabilities
2. Enjoy family and friends connections. We may have swung to the other extreme, time to slow down a bit
3. Allow H space to deal with his issues. We now have R (and A, OW) talks about once a week, and H seems to value my input. S L O W L Y getting our R back to what it should be, then improving it
4. Keep on filling H's tank. With hindsight, I've been careless about this (as has he). I will keep in mind his LLs and work on these consciously first, then as a habit. Taking time to acknowledge steps he is taking every day to reassure me in his own way. Let go for now evidence of residual relationship with OW
5. Take good care of my health. Long overdue visit to the dentist, and ugh, need to fix bags under my eyes Must get back to a more settled sleep pattern. Recover from cold and chest infection first
6. Keep an eye on our financial stability. Put together a guerilla marketing program
7. Spring clean and shift unwanted usables to Oxfam
8. Start putting some structure around charitable works. Contact some agencies and inquire about volunteer work
Still a lot to be done, but hey, this is how I am choosing to live my life Slowly