[quote]. I mean if we were model husbands and wives, we would have never found the DB board, right? But, you didn't make her cheat. She chose that. She knew it was wrong and did
I agree no one makes a spouse cheat. But disagree that being a model spouse would prevent a divorce. People choose divorce and waywardness because they are not committed and they are not loyal (with the exception of real abuse and addiction). That is who they are. Often times they are seriously disordered. It just takes us getting out of the fog to realize.
Its impossible for anyone to be a model spouse anyway. Thats not realistic.
