Quotes found on Divorcebusting (7)

[Ready2Change]

From my notes:

You don't have a conflict with the person, but with a PATTERN OF BEHAVIOR

You want to confront a particular behavior and not the person

"Look, this is something that I've wanted to tell you, but I've been uncomfortable about it, and haven't wanted to say it"

This is best used when the R is at a point where both people are willing to listen to each other.