ovr, hey buddy! Thanks for the update. I see the part about AS saying WWs take a long time before they recognize what they were doing. I can vouch for that. My W and I have been piecing since last March, and it wasn't until last month when I talked to her on our long trip she showed real remorse. Even disgust at herself. I have to admit it touched me. But think about that. She was out of waywardness for 10 months!!!! And just now showing the remorse for what happened.
Hang in there buddy, it gets better.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018