That married couples can live together day after day is a miracle the Vatican has overlooked. ~ Bill Cosby
Journaling our weekend.
Positives + H came home early again on Friday. We had tea together, he wanted to chat about the most recent discussion with OW's H, and that since Wednesday, there has been contact of any kind. Hmmmm. Let's see how long this one lasts + We drove up to my mum's place, had a good visit with her over the weekend + Met a couple of old friends, caught up with their families, all very nice + Tried a bit of boundary setting on Sunday, seemed to have worked – will post more details over at Central Perk
Negatives - Both of us are still nursing our ferocious colds, with hindsight we should have rested up instead of visiting, but honestly, we seemed to be on the mend so well. Looks like there is no escaping the antibiotics, my cold feels like a chest infection now. Acknowledging I need help, going to the doctor today - H still says he is 'not sure what to do' about moving on – this really scares me, but zipping my mouth. No more 'suggestions'. He also mentioned yesterday that he did not know how to heal the breach of trust in our relationship.
More interesting times ahead. Here's to the next growth phase for us. Hugs, Slowly
