The teenager behavior continues. Every morning I come into a kitchen with dirty dishes on the counter and any garbage or recyclables he has generated just strewn about the kitchen. It's almost like my husband is trying to get me to fight with him about it. I haven't said anything (after all I guess it is small potatoes compared to the much larger issue of him wanting to move out) but it is still irritating every morning. At home my husband is wearing the same jeans and hoodie at all times with the hood up like he is hiding. It really is like living with a 15 year old.
Interestingly, every weekday he still puts on his business clothes, shaves and goes to work looking normal. I think his behavior has only regressed to sullen teen at home. He does put the kids on the bus every morning before work still (I go to work early in the morning) for which I am grateful.
The weekends are hard. I plan outings with the kids but there is just a certain amount of time that is spent at home taking care of life. Last year (when my husband was acting strangely but pre-BD) he was gone a lot on the weekends. Now he is around and doing a lot of heavy sighing every time we cross paths. I try not to let it affect me but it does. I am not even engaging him I am just existing and going about my life and that seems to make him angry.
I am going to try and head into the weekend with a good attitude though. Be the change I want to see.
