Jlh, I'm sorry to hear that. Hopefully you have been mentally preparing for this moment.
Originally Posted by Jlh
I have so much to do yet during our talk he was only talking about him him him, how much his attorney costs, money issues, etc.
You don't have to listen to all of this. You can shut the conversations down and get to doing what you want and need to do.
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Well my kiddo is asking more and more where his daddy is. I'm not pleased that he looks sad now asking. I'm not sure what to say to him. H only contacts him on the two days a week that he wanted in the evenings to see him and the every other weekend.
You need to be as honest as possible without being rude or mean-spirited when talking about his dad. And you don't have to tell him everything. When he's older, he'll figure it out.
It seems like you and your H have fairly regular interaction. What has the tone been for you? Are you conveying anger, bitterness, etc? Are you pursuing or pressuring him at all? What is your mindset on these interactions?
What have you been up to for fun in the evenings and weekends?
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
