I'm realizing I need to let her miss me. Obviously what I've been doing is not working. I don't think she has felt what it will really be like if we D. I've been too available to her and too willing to help her with things she should be doing in her own. She also have really felt what it's like to be alone without the kids since she is living with her parents. Her parents were out of town for a week recently and it was my weekend to have the boys. We talked recently about that and she said it made her really sad that she was all alone in the house. I don't think she's really thought about what life will be like if we D.