I know nobody really reads my tale much and post mostly to journal but, I have news. I had prepared for it but it still stings a little. H says that he is fed up with waiting for my lawyer to discuss things with his lawyer. He says that he and his own lawyer feel that mine is stalling and they are going to go ahead and just file for D separately. He says to expect the papers delivered or mailed soon.

He's been upset lately because our son tells him he wants to come home to me about an hour after he brings him to his apartment. I can sort of see why as they don't do too much together other than go grocery shopping now that it's too cold to go out and swim or go to the park.

I have a lot to do now. My family is out of state where I'd get the most support as I have no family up here and my close friends are back home as well. He says he won't sign off on our son coming with me. I have so much to do yet during our talk he was only talking about him him him, how much his attorney costs, money issues, etc.

Meanwhile I have money issues of my own, I was a SAHM for years and stay at home wife before that Im just now back in the workforce part time for work and the other time to care for our autistic son. Im struggling and doing the best I can but I feel like I'm in quicksand.

It must be nice to just be able to run away and hide in an apartment while your wife takes care of the house, pets, a child, etc.

Together for 13 years, married for 8.
H is 46
I'm 40
S is 6
Bombdrop in April 2018
Still in limbo as of 2019