I read what your H wrote Gerda, and saw a man who is saying that he's leaving the marriage because he feels he's not got any say in decision making and that you won't take the risks he wants you to take. Would they be business risks, or is he speaking of something else.
The 'clash' email was a bit harder to decipher. Obviously he feels you two fight too much, but I couldn't quite work out how he thought leaving the 'clashing' was going to make working with you after a divorce any easier. Did any of that make sense to you?
