Hi Sage - Wow, an early start! Yes, I'm now happily chasing down my cheese tunnels I'm honestly quite detached from this problem now. I've promised myself to revisit this in a month's time.

In the meantime, I'm working on getting myself a life, and having fun re-connecting with friends.

The strange thing is that H seems to be more open to talk about how he is trying to get to a point of no contact with OW. He really does not have anyone else to talk to, and I think it helps him think more clearly. Strange but true

The thing I'mnow trying to figure out is how to get H to understand that strong women still enjoy romance, tenderness and all that jazz.

Hope you are enjoying the school holidays. Slowly.


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