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I'm also identifying with something Sage said earlier on this thread.
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I still get so darned stuck in feeling as though I need h to tell me WHY and WHAT and HOW it all happened. And I think I'm keeping myself from viewing my m. as "a success" because I just haven't heard the words of what was missing...what led him to where he was...

I KNOW that for now I need to leave this alone, but it is at the back of my mind and I just need to manage myself better.



Let me ungraciously boot you out of this cheeseless tunnel it's dark and confusing and never gets easier to navigate. it's a big old waste of time! But you know that, right? And if you're taking your own great advice you're currently walking boldly down a tunnel that you KNOW has cheese at the end of it, right???

Sage

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.