Originally Posted by bubbs16
I told her today
Did this work for you?

No more telling her things. No more talking to her on the phone. If she calls, Let her go to VM.


So you have a decision to make.

1) Move back and pursue a woman who does not want to be with you, all while not having a JOB.

or

2) Give her time and space like she asked for, let her miss you, and move to a town where you do have a job.



If you pick #2, you can have time and space away from her, work on your personal growth.

Text her:

"I have taken the job in ski town USA. After I get settled, I will text you where you can ship my things. If you can't wait, I will pick them up earlier. Bubbs16"


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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