No more telling her things. No more talking to her on the phone. If she calls, Let her go to VM.
So you have a decision to make.
1) Move back and pursue a woman who does not want to be with you, all while not having a JOB.
or
2) Give her time and space like she asked for, let her miss you, and move to a town where you do have a job.
If you pick #2, you can have time and space away from her, work on your personal growth.
Text her:
"I have taken the job in ski town USA. After I get settled, I will text you where you can ship my things. If you can't wait, I will pick them up earlier. Bubbs16"
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712