I've been trying to figure out why I get so unglued with the continued contact with OW thing. It has a lot to do with not understanding why. H insists the A is over, so why the contact?
I'm also identifying with something Sage said earlier on this thread.
Quote: I still get so darned stuck in feeling as though I need h to tell me WHY and WHAT and HOW it all happened. And I think I'm keeping myself from viewing my m. as "a success" because I just haven't heard the words of what was missing...what led him to where he was...
I KNOW that for now I need to leave this alone, but it is at the back of my mind and I just need to manage myself better.
Having completed Betsey's assignment, I'll just have to schedule to review this in a month's time, and take stock then. Not spending another minute on this
