Thanks, SoTorn. I hope you don't mind, but I posted a summary of what you said on Nicole's thread.
J9, in the end, that's about what I said. It seemed to be perfect, because I got back a pretty neutral response, mostly talking about taking care of our kids, which doesn't require an immediate response, so i won't
M:23 T:26 Me:53, Wife: 60 S:18 D:16 filed 7/16 W moved out 4/28/17