Nicole, a friend of mine told me "the judicial system is a great way to get money, but don't expect justice." I have found that to be true on multiple occasions. It doesn't seem "right", considering what you and D are going through, but the law says he has every right to do what he is doing, and all you have is the right to half the marital assets. Doesn't seem fair, does it?
SoTorn had an interesting reply on cell phones on my thread. I expect you'll read it eventually, but he basically says your D carries the same risks whether she carries a cell phone or not. I'm not trying to push you into a cell phone, but I wonder if her not having a cell phone might be so you can have an excuse to talk to WH when he calls D.
((hugs))
M:23 T:26 Me:53, Wife: 60 S:18 D:16 filed 7/16 W moved out 4/28/17