Did,

Been reading up on your sitch, and boy do I see so many parallels between your and my sitch.

I am slowly but steady realizing the same things you are, and I too get fooled and played like a stradivarius. I say no more. I say, lets heal, be strong for our kids, find joy in what we have, and change what we can and want too. Let the rest be, because it is not up to us to persuade, empower, or control our crazy former partners.

I dare you, to not "blog / journal" one single entry containing WW for the rest of January. I will do the same. If you have read my sitch, you know that I need to as well laugh.

Love is all around us, so embrace it, open up for it, and dont waste your energy on someone who doesn't want to be loved. Maybe down the line, maybe not, but hey, live in the moment, because, your daughter is growing bigger, wiser and more beautiful by the day - I know since im sitting writing this, after having just tugged in my own D5. Do not miss out on ANY of these special moments, because you are busy trying to please / read the mind of a woman that hurt you so profoundly. Dedicate yourself to you and your daughter and let every piece of the puzzle fall in place naturally. Maybe that spouse piece will be familiar, and maybe it will be a whole new adventure. Carpe diem my friend, carpe diem..


BD: Wife says "its over" 11th august 2018.
EA: June 2018
PA: August 2018 - ongoing
Status: Taking turns 7 days a week to be in the house w. kids
WW: no regrets, seems happy with leaving.