Agree with Blu, and just commented on this based on something sandi said related to trust. Vanilla, a poster I haven't seen a while, apparently said requiring someone to earn back your trust is abusive. I can't agree with that.

Trust is earned.

Once trust is broken trust is even harder earned.

Those that are trustworthy PROVE to be trusted.

After infidelity, the cheating spouse needs to agree to full transparency.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018