Uncertain of What I Have (Thread 5)

[Twofeet]

TF,

I’ve been biting my tongue a lot on any sort of snarky comments she would make. It’s a 180 for me—I’m trying not to be baited.

Still on the hook—this may sound naive, but on the hook for what?

Most of the time recently, W walking around like that doesn’t really do anything for me.

She could very well have been temp-checking me last night when I was sitting on the couch, and she came over to me, wearing what I described earlier, and offered me a cookie. So she’s in front of me looking like that. I honestly should have declined the cookie.

2 nights ago when we had our talk she looked all frumpy—and at times I could see shades of her mom in how she looked.

Like I said, I’m sure a lot of other women would look just as good as she does doing that, but I’m also certain that could treat me better than she is doing right now.

I don’t finding leaving marriages and potentially breaking up families all that attractive—physically or emotionally.

Bo,

She is temp checking you to see if you are on the hook. It means if you are still in pursuit mode, if she has you by the balls, if you are ripe for the picking, if she can manipulate you, if you are still willing to eat the crumbs she is sending your way.

Also if she offers your a cookie to eat and you want to eat it then take it, say thanks, and go back to what you were doing. Nonchalant and no 2 F's given.