She knows...Part 6

[sandi2]

But something has changed. Last night, W started apologizing.

She started actually accepting accountability for some things.

My response was basically (paraphrased): "You can say anything. I only trust actions."

She asked "why are we spending thousands of dollars on this to fight in court?" My response: "Because you started a war."

She wants to talk again.

She even said she wants to do marriage counseling. She brought it up.

I don't trust it. I know it's a trap. Honestly, it sounds like my attorney set her attorney straight on a LOT of things.

So W wanted to talk again last night. So when the time came for her to get off of work, she called me.

W: "Have you seen my glasses?"

M: "No, you had them when you left."

W: "Can you look?"

M: *looks* "They aren't here."

W: "Okay. I'll talk to you later."

M: "Did you still want to talk?"

W: "Nah. Have a good night."

M: "You too."


Maybe she just had a long day and didn't feel up to a serious conversation. Maybe she was just full of crap. I think it's a bit of both. I'm not going to push it, and I'm just going to let it go.

I hate to say it, but it still stings a bit that she'd act so...like she wanted to try to work things out, despite the fact that it's pretty much beyond repair at this point. I don't know. I'm detached for sure now. But it does still feel...almost insulting. Oh well.

Oh she's good. And by good, I mean temp checking.

You are right not to jump at her whistling in wind. This gal should have to work very hard to get you get back again. And remember, consistency is what you would need to see. Don't trust any sudden changes in her.