Wife in MLC, I think

[Ready2Change]

I will need to work on boundary setting with W, validation,

I am sure you have seen this, but memorize:

When you . . . . .
I feel . . . . .

I want . .
If you ......
I will.....

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One of my first boundaries with my X was primary communication via Email.

This is my boundary:

When you make agreements and then change your mind and lie and rewrite history,

I feel I can no longer trust you.

I want to keep all of our communications via Email so that we have a written record of our agreements and I can review previous conversations and take my time to respond so that we reduce any confusion

If you try to speak with me about anything this is not critically urgent,

I will not engage in the conversation and send you an text/email to refresh your memory.

This is the short version:

Please Email me your thoughts (or concerns) (or the details) and I will look it over.

If I send important emails.
H:Text "W, I send you an Email"