She is still in contact with the OM and visits him every weekend.
Please stay balanced. You almost swung too far the other direction, since you know she is still seeing OM. Do you see where you nearly went too far?
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It's only been 10 days since I cut the vindictiveness and anger, but I am feeling some positivity not only in myself but between her and I as well.
Good! The vindictiveness was eating you alive!
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I still wait to respond to her messages).
Why? Don't you think it looks rude to make her wait every single time, before you respond? I mean, if you are truly busy, then don't break your neck to answer, but as long as she is using respectful words and not getting a bad attitude with you......I don't think it is necessary to play the "waiting game" before responding each time.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
