Thanks DnJ, always more than one way of looking at things I suppose.

Ok, so it's birthday time of the year. Year 1--sent me a very nice card asking me to "imagine the possibilities". Year 2--nothing. Year 3--I get a large deposit in my bank account. I'm sure it is a mistake, but it is rather funny. I'm waiting to hear from him asking for it back or accusing me somehow of being devious in "taking" it. Maybe he will be PA and have the bank do his dirty work. He might wait until tomorrow since I'm sure he would get my cooties by contacting me today.

He started contacting child at home again this week. He is doing weird things with the times he contacts him. They are not coincidental. I am predicting that S will get a text at a very specific time today, namely 1:17pm. Will be interesting to see if he does.

Still nothing on the divorce, the agreement, the auto insurance or the health insurance cards.

In general, after seeing what everyone else is going through, I've decided I've been a big baby for complaining about anything, at any time, ever. I will choose instead to embrace the 99% of my life that is going great. Peace and love to you all.