Positives + Got myself to the nail salon, enjoyed a manicure and pedicure. Committed to doing this once a fortnight. French manicure next time + H came over for lunch again + I have started looking at the KLA stuff, very thought provoking. I'm sure there will be some squirmish moments to truth here + Picked up the Boundaries in Marriage book. H swiped it off me before I could start, he is now working through it
Negatives - Both H and I feel like we are coming down with flu - H was late home, after indicating he'd be back at 5. Not good. I did not make an issue of it, but felt like he was taking me for granted like old times - I confirmed dinner with friends next week, and only when advising H of the dates did it dawn on me that the control-freak was re-surfacing. H was ok with the date, but boy did I miss an opportunity to draw him closer, show the changed me. Next time
And now for the more difficult lessons of the day. Slowly