I’ve been biting my tongue a lot on any sort of snarky comments she would make. It’s a 180 for me—I’m trying not to be baited.
Still on the hook—this may sound naive, but on the hook for what?
Most of the time recently, W walking around like that doesn’t really do anything for me.
She could very well have been temp-checking me last night when I was sitting on the couch, and she came over to me, wearing what I described earlier, and offered me a cookie. So she’s in front of me looking like that. I honestly should have declined the cookie.
2 nights ago when we had our talk she looked all frumpy—and at times I could see shades of her mom in how she looked.
Like I said, I’m sure a lot of other women would look just as good as she does doing that, but I’m also certain that could treat me better than she is doing right now.
I don’t finding leaving marriages and potentially breaking up families all that attractive—physically or emotionally.