For GAL, I've connected with old friends and we've been hanging out watching football, drinking. We're planning a golf trip in the spring. I've been trying to plan new fun things for me and the boys to do when I have them on the weekends. They seem to really be enjoying that, S5 asked yesterday what I had planned for this weekend. I have been running a lot more over the last couple months since BD. It has helped to keep my stress down.
There has been no push from her to get a separation agreement in place. We have to wait a year from our separation date to file for D. We have discussed what till happen if we do file for D. We plan to go to mediation because we agree on everything with the kids and our assets. Again she hasn't made any push toward getting anything in place and I'm not going to push to get anything done. She can do the legwork if she wants this to go forward. W says she is adamant that this is over but she's hasn't made any moves to make that happen.
Today is the first day in a long time where I haven't texted wife to have a good day or something like that. It feels weird but good at the same time.
