Agree with what you say neffer, just from the contact I saw though it looks like she is trying to detach from OM on her own. I am taking all advice with a grain of salt and like I have heard here keep doing what is working, so I am doing me unless there is a reason to do us.

Although I will not call this R, I do see W moving closer to it through her actions. The GGW activities have ceased which if you have followed my sitch from months ago was GGW x10. I am continuing DBing and the important thing for me is the 180 and controlling my emotions like Steve said. I acknowledge I took a step back the other night but we learn from our mistakes.

H-50
W-48
T-19
M -18
S23, S14
BD - 5/9/2018
OM discovered 5/10/2018

In house sep - 8/18/2018
Rope drop 2/15/2019
R'ing since 3/15/2019