You can probably still have limited contact but let her initiate it. Get busy with your life, work on your 180's, and let her wonder. Stop the pursuit, stop the pressure. This website and DR book have lots of examples of pressure and pursuit.
The fact that your W hasn't filed means she probably doesn't know if that's what she wants to do. So when you aren't putting all the pressure on her she can figure out what she really wants and maybe she can begin to see your 180's.
What are you doing for GAL? Have you been going to the gym a lot?
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
