Slowly, you are doing great girl. just keep up the DBing. i find it is easier to give advice than to take advice. you seem to be in the same boat. you have helped me tremendously with your great advice. Now i want you to take some of that same advice.
it is a slow sacred journey. You have to give him space and time to get over OW. you can not control that. if you kill him with kindness and he doesnt have any reason to go to her then it will die. dont push him into not seeing her.
Man this giving advice is easy LOL if i could just give myself advice like this and take it i would be in great shape.
that is my short term goal. heed own advice.
see you later, hugs+hugs+hugs and more hugs. Randy
