Building my best self and life with or without W

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You don't know and you don't need to know if she should go to the Dr. She's an adult. She was able to figure this out before she met you, right? So she can figure this out for herself.

Is she asking you a question? If so, respond "yes" or "no". If there's no question, don't respond. I'm going to hammer this to death. She wants you to come save the day, but a couple days ago she told you she has a new OM. It's his problem and you need to let it be his problem. And if he doesn't want to meet her needs then oh well. But you can't go take care of her and not get what you need, expect, and REQUIRE from a relationship. Your W is not well, but she won't get better if you keep playing into her demented open relationship expectations.