I think at this point is it best for me to try to take a step back and let her go. This has been the hardest part for me. I realize I can't change her, I can only change myself. Before she said she didn't want to do things with me for fear of giving me hope, I tried to do things together because that was one of the things she complained about on BD. She is right it did give me hope that things would change because we always had a good time together when we were hanging out. Then a few days later she would say nothing has changed and she wants out. I think the best thing for me right now is to just let her go and try to detach as much a possible.
