Uncertain of What I Have (Thread 5)

[Twofeet]

Bo,

Have you read my sitch? Start to current? My Ex would do things that I wouldn't outwardly react, but internally I would be like WTF. I don't think I even I wrote about them all on my thread. She would want bathroom privacy and not be naked or even be her underwear around me.....unless she was temp checking. One night I am hiding out in the master closet on the phone removing her from my cc. At this point she had booted S3 from his bed and was making him sleep on the floor. Anyway she comes into the master closet in panties and a camisole and plops down in front of me in a provocative open legged position. I said to her where are your yoga pants, she said she was just too hot to wear them. Another wtf moment mentally, and boy did I want to pounce. I didn't, instead I was nonchalant... another temp check. Your W knows what gets your motor running she is likely temp checking you to make sure your still on the hook. I look back at BD to D and wow Ex had attempted a lot of manipulation. DB helps you avoid that, even when you don't realize it.

Also I think Steve is very correct. She may be in an EA, PA, or her A could be all in her head, but she is going to want to move out to act on it. Its damage control so they can move on with their image intact .