Uncertain of What I Have (Thread 5)

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Wanted,

What’s bizarre (I mean, what’s not bizarre at this point), is that last night she told me that she allegedly has been DONE for the last year-and-a-half or so (since I guess mid-2017 if her timeline is to be believed).

So, which is it:

Done since mid-2017

ILYBINILWY BD in Feb. 2018 where she told me she wasn’t sure she wanted to even be married to me

Or October when she first mentioned a break / S

But my reacting to her proposing a break / S is what did things in?!?!?!?! Oh yes

Yes, I got the same thing, basically. Right after BD, my W mentioned that “she had been checked out for quite a long time.”

This might not directly apply to what we are discussing but it sort of in the same “thread” so to speak. she said something else the day after BD that has stuck with me this entire time. She made a comment about how once women know they are out, they are out. However, men are the opposite and try to do everything to try to make things better. Subtle hint? That’s how I took it. The part about men sounds an awful lot like “too little too late” as well.

I’ve become acutely aware that with a WW, from my experience, the goal posts continue to move.