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While that's a fair point, we'll have to agree to disagree. A CC as defined in NMMNG is what AS and I have stated. While a private timeline for how long you will wait is secret, it's not the same thing. In fact in the case of a timeline you'd actually be more likely to be accused of trying to manipulate her by giving her your dropdead date than keeping it to yourself.

That's why I was advised to not share it by the anti D expert and why I would advise others to not share it either.

Steve, my friend, I wonder if you are still reading this. AnotherStander and I are in agreement. Look again.

If you still don't believe me google Covert Contract. Please. I say this not to be right but I think you want to know.

As for your sitch? Again I wish I hadn't used it as an example because we have spent the last 20 posts debating it. I never meant to rehash the merits of your decision. I didn't. I added caveats and still, I have been misunderstood.

I wish you had taken the time to scan my last thread. I laid out my intended plan. I know reading all these sitchs gets draining. That's why I have chosen to try to go deep with only a few.

Thanks again.