Hi there,
So just journaling...

I know not to read into anything, but this one has me scratching my head a bit. I just have to laugh. It’s so weird.

I get a text today from ex asking if I can bring him an old beanie hat. He asked for this beanie a couple years ago.. it was one we got on vacation a long time ago. Anyway, at the time, I told him I had no idea where it was. I was booted out of my house after all and had no idea where my belongings where.

And today, he texted asking me to bring it to him next time I pick up the dog. And reminded me that he asked for it years ago.

So... 1) this beanie is like 6 years old now 2) he (self proclaims) that he has no sentimentality 3) he hates me so much, why reach out? The beanie is worth breaking no contact with me?

It’s just bizarre. Truth is, I don’t know where this beanie is and I’m like... uhhhh... huh??? I kind of want to send him a link to amazon showing him alternatives for replacement.

So weird!


Me- 30's H- 40's
T-10 M-5
I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15
D filed by H: September 16