I have no idea what to do at this point. She has said you can't come home im not ready for that etc etc. she also said i dont think we can be under the same roof at the same time.
You move back into your house ASAP. You sleep in the master bedroom.
W:"H, bla bla bla why are you back, bla bla bla" H:"I decided I like it here" W:"Bla bla bla bla bla .. you need to leave bla bla bla" H:"I am sorry you feel that way. If you need time and space, you are free to leave"
Do this calmly. Pay attention to your body language, and tone. Maintain strong eye contact.
I told her today i had a job back in Co at the ski resort till end of ski season. She then said i dont know when else to do this but ITS OVER WE ARE DONE. We are never getting back together. I will ship you your stuff. whatever it takes, etc etc etc. When we got off the phone she text me that she wants me to ship her the house key and the car keys. She never wants me there ever again.