You shouldn't have left the house, you should have said "I'm not going anywhere, but if you feel you need time and space bad enough to leave then I will respect your wishes and will not try to stop you." Why? Because usually when a wife walks it's because she has lost respect for her H. And when he caves in on all her demands to try to placate her, it just makes it worse because then she REALLY doesn't respect him. But you did move out, so that's water under the bridge. Can I ask why you are 800 miles away though? You mentioned you had no friends there, but did you not have a job? Seems odd to pick up and move THAT far away. It does have an upside, makes it easier to detach when you rarely see her.
I Did say that to begin with , then it just kept getting worse and worse and i never should have left.
