I did try to just let her vent and get bored, but she doesn't. If she is heated and I leave the door open she will come in the room and stay in the room trying to force an argument. Thats only when she is really mad. And again this isnt every day, it has actually calmed down quite a bit. But it does happen frequently enough that its annoying. I have nothing to hide and I am all for communication.
"Excuse me, but I need to step out for a while." Then go for a drive, or to the store. Get out of the house.
Originally Posted by SoTorn
Any other suggestions on what to say when she approaches me with a "Why are you doing XXX?" with a really pissed off tone? Or if she throws a random accusation at me. WW is convinced that I am hiding something in my closet, to the point where she completely ignores the camera that is in my closet and digs through everything looking for whatever she thinks I am hiding. I have asked her why she keeps doing this but she just responds with "you know what you are doing!"
"I am not sure what you're getting at. But I can tell you are very upset about it. I need some time to consider what you are saying and will get back to you."
With accusations: "I am sorry you feel that way but I can assure you that isn't the case."
Ignore her digging through the closet. Likely she does it knowing you will react and then she gets to say "you know what you are doing!"
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
