Uncertain of What I Have (Thread 5)

[SteveLW]

Bo, WASs/WSs will always react to DBing. Mine kept asking if something was wrong. Some get belligerent (see SoTorn's thread). But all will react once you start doing it well.

As far as her language? Likely as she feels a loss of control and power she will start poking. She'll throw things against the wall and see what sticks. The usual one is "Are you cheating on me?" Always ripe for those that are engaged in EAs or PAs. As if you cheating is terrible despite what they might be doing. (Note, I am not justifying starting a relationship with someone. Just that they do not have the moral high ground they think they do.)

Bo, my advice is double down on DBing. Keep working on detachment. Keep 180ing on things that you need to change about you. GAL like a madman. Be the best dad you can be. Be AMOAFWL!