I think you need to change your approach. For instance:

When she stands in the door, and you say "please leave my room" but she won't. Instead of engaging with her, closing the door, pushing her foot (you need to be careful with that, if she hurts her foot she could claim you were abusive, I've heard LBH getting arrested for assault because the closed a cabinet on their WAW's hand (by accident)). How about you state, "I'd like for you to leave my room now." Then go about your business. Eventually she will get bored and leave.

ST, try to find ways to diffuse. I know it is hard. But retreating to your room is NOT being the king of your castle, and is not being AMOAFWL.

ST I know it is rough, but you need to get back to good DB fundamentals.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018