Currently we do 2/2/3 starting on Mondays, so we alternate weekends with the boys. I pick up S3 at daycare every day and get S5 off the bus and they stay with me until my W gets home from work. So at least I get to see them every day.
One thing I struggle with is my W saying things like, you look nice or sending me texts saying I something that made me think of you. My W has always wanted people to like her and can't stand it when people are upset with her. I don't know if this is her way of trying to make me feel better and thereby not be upset with her. She has admitted that she is struggling with the thought of D because she doesn't want to hurt me.
I think her need to have people be happy with her contributed to us in getting in this sitch because she would never vocalize her opinions about issues she was having.
Another thing I can't understand is we were having sex regularly up until a week before BD and then she tells me she doesn't love me and hasn't been happy for a long time. We were also planning a trip to Ireland for our anniversary.
