Thanks Steve, that is what I was thinking too. Things had moved forward and by no means did I think R was taking place. The detachment part was me thinking that the who didn't even bother me....it was the what and the deception then the lie.

Actually had IC this morning and she said the same. I do see the setback and will have to see how things go from here.

Do you suggest I engage about what happened?


H-50
W-48
T-19
M -18
S23, S14
BD - 5/9/2018
OM discovered 5/10/2018

In house sep - 8/18/2018
Rope drop 2/15/2019
R'ing since 3/15/2019