Still Lost pt3

[lost8]

Hello all....been a while for me but looking for advice.

Things have been better since W started working at home, def see a desire to move in a direction closer to me. The GG wild activities have stopped but most certain still texts OM.

W has shown a lot of emotion about what she has done and intentions to get her life back, ILYs, intimacy, normalcy even when sober, etc. I have been extremely cautious and have not put my wall down nor have I engaged when things don't look right.

I have noticed her texting to a name that totally makes no sens and last night saw texts, only because I was sitting right nest to her that said "we just have different lives and different goals, babe", from her and response was "why, call me"

It almost seemed like she is declining requests to continue what they had and that she had moved on from the level that they had. I did react and asked to see phone and she declined in anger as I could have easily checked contact number and known who it was regardless of the name on that contact which was a female name. She stormed off to her room and I went to mine and 15 minutes later she called me and texted then showed up in my room to ask what happened.

I said I couldn't trust her and I knew who she was talking to, but that was it. No big arguments, etc. I used to feel a gut punch after sitches like this but not this time, my detachment in my mind has worked...because she can go for all I care.

I just wanted some advice, maybe the A is fizzleing down to this point and she does want to move forward with possible progress but there has not been any true transperancy. I don't plan on pursuing this sitch that happened last night and am pulling back but did I over react?