The fact that you can repeat that much of what she has been up to and blah blah blah is a major indicator that spoke to her for too long. Do not go in her house, do not let her in your house. And drop offs or pick ups should take about 30 seconds. No lingering. For real deal, you need to stop letting her tell you about her life. Don't let her show interest. Get on about your business.
I say this bc you need to start moving on. You will only do that if start to actually do it. Stop looking at these "breadcrumbs" as anything more than what they are.
